I feel it's important to know your GH and KH. The more you know about your water the better.
When I was new to the hobby, I decided on the fish I wanted to start with, like everyone always suggests. (I picked Mollies and Platies) I knew nothing of my water, but everyone also says not to chase parameters, and that the fish will adjust. So I got the fish, and they did very poorly.
As it turns out, my water was as soft (very low GH) as can be, with almost no KH either. Needless to say, I could see the fish struggling. I lost one, sadly.
It was not until I tested my GH/KH that I realized what was "wrong." With no KH, I had the PH swing/crash. I immediately started doctoring my water, bringing up the GH/KH, and in turn....PH. The fish responded extremely positively. It was instantly noticeable, even to a beginner. Since then, I "doctor" my water, and do my best to create a good, stable environment for the fish I have.
So when folks say not to worry about GH or KH....I would say you may not need to worry about them, but you don't know until you know what they are.
I will also echo what others have said: Stay positive, learn, do your best to relax, and things will fall into place, yielding true enjoyment and appreciation.