So, I see post here and on reddit occationally who feel guilty about how they keep fish or think that they are a bad fish keeper. So, i want to say what i think a good fish keeper is.
If you think you are a bad fish keeper, than you are a good fish keeper. Basically, if you care about your fish at all, you are a better fish keeper than 90% of fish keepers out there. To most people, fish are like a joke pet. They put a gold fish in a bowl and it dies after a week and think nothing of it. So if you feel guilty bc of an angelfish you've had for 2 years died of some disease, you are light years ahead of almost all fish keepers.
If you are reading this, you are a good fiah keeper. If your here, it means you are trying to get better at fish keeping. Most fish keepers are not. Most fish keepers keep fish for a few months, and after killing a bunch, they give up and move on to something else. If a fish is bought by someone on this forum, they are an extremely lucky fish.
If you enjoy fish keeping but are considering giving up the hobby bc of some sense of guilt, i plead with you to reconsider. Fish and the hobby are better with you!