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  1. 21 hours ago, Edward Steven said:

    This happens to me quite a bit and it always makes me chuckle. I just had another one and figured I'd share.

    "If your friends just randomly leave buckets of driftwood or rocks on your porch.... you might be a fish nerd."

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    My wife will see me eyeballing a piece of wood on a hike and yells "NO!"

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  2. On 7/16/2020 at 8:12 AM, tfwvusa said:

    I have PTSD and I just got the hobbies taken away from me due to repetitive motition injury which I now have to have surgery for that I used to cope with my anxiety so now I sit with 3 tanks one of which is my Betta that sits next to me and interacts with me all day. It's very therapeutic.

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    On 7/15/2020 at 10:27 PM, Dmmurray said:

    Absolutely! I am disabled, and went from being a runner, weight lifter, wood cutter, and many other activities in my life. Now, I can't walk much, and must take breaks from chores often. All the fish have given me such joy, and entertainment, while keeping my mind off the pain, and what I cannot do anymore. I hope I am creating a good life for them, as well. Cory, and aquarium co op, have been the reason that I feel I can do this at all.

     

    On 7/15/2020 at 1:36 PM, Bill Smith said:

    Thanks Daniel, unfortunately, for me, this one fails the wife test.

    Live brine: yes.

    Live worms: no.

     

    23 hours ago, Frost said:

    I think I would pick Bettas and go overboard with Betta racks, I kind of want to do that anyway.

    If I can get away with saying the general gourami family of fish then even better. I haven't gotten enough of them in about a decade now and I don't think I could ever get tired of them.

     

  3. 19 hours ago, ForestJenn said:

    I've mentioned elsewhere on the forum that my 11 year old son is interested in breeding Bristlenose.   After a lot of research, he wanted a male long fin green dragon and two super red females.  (I think he was hoping to get long fin super reds out of the mix.)   I hemmed and hawed because I wasn't certain if he'd be raising cross-beeds or hybrids.  Plus I had this nightmare vision of producing hundreds of fish that no one else would want because they weren't one thing or the other.

    We stopped by Aquarium Co-op today to see the long fin green dragons and my son had lots of questions.  Over the course of the conversation, he (we) learned a lot. The staff members confirmed that the long fin green dragon and the super red are the same species.  BUT!  They also confirmed my concern that he'd be producing mutt fish and that getting a store to take them might be more difficult.  They talked about breeding ages, sex determination and gave him encouragement.

    By the time we left the store he had decided:

    1. That he would stick with one variety for now 

    2. That he can be patient and wait for the two young fish we picked up today mature.

    3. That he can maybe start a different breeding project in the interim.  Maybe Endlers?

    All of this happened because the staff at the store took him seriously, were knowledgeable and were willing to share that knowledge.   One short visit ended up being a super positive experience and a bit of an adventure (which is exactly what he needs right now!)  They also saved us some potential heartache and frustration down the road.  (They also sold us two instead of the one  I promised my son. What can I say?  I was happy,  the price was right and the fish are cool!)

    I Love that your child was able to adjust the plan after further education.   So many wont reevaluate after new information comes about 

  4. 10 hours ago, Dmmurray said:

    Absolutely! I am disabled, and went from being a runner, weight lifter, wood cutter, and many other activities in my life. Now, I can't walk much, and must take breaks from chores often. All the fish have given me such joy, and entertainment, while keeping my mind off the pain, and what I cannot do anymore. I hope I am creating a good life for them, as well. Cory, and aquarium co op, have been the reason that I feel I can do this at all.

    I have talked with many that have lost so much; its amazing how many have turned to animals for help.  

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  5. 12 hours ago, Lynn M said:

    Great job Mom!.  It is so nice to hear a story like yours.  Keep up the great work!

    So glad you where able to find a way to bring down your kids anxiety.   Its also great when we can introduce younger generation s to the hobby.

  6. 38 minutes ago, tfwvusa said:

    I have PTSD and I just got the hobbies taken away from me due to repetitive motition injury which I now have to have surgery for that I used to cope with my anxiety so now I sit with 3 tanks one of which is my Betta that sits next to me and interacts with me all day. It's very therapeutic.

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    So glad you are able to keep atleast one of your hobbies.  Would have been terrible to loose all of them.

  7. 2 hours ago, Pat.Shaw said:

    The hobby helps me a ton! Im a person in recovery from addiction and the hobby gives me a constant flow of things to do and learn. In early recovery the hobby, I think played a vital role in helping stay on track with living sober. So grateful for the hobby and the many fellow fish nerds ❤️

    So glad it is helping you.  I know ma.y addicts and know how hard it is.

     

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