Hi all,
New fish person (about a month in) with a little bit of a problem. One of my first fish - a male German Blue Ram - and my newest addition - a male Neon Blue Dwarf Gourami - are not getting along. Here's a basic timeline:
I had the Ram for about 3 weeks, and up until now he has been the king of the castle. Any time I add new fish, he nips them a few times and then leaves them alone. But those fish spend most of their time hiding. I thought this was normal at the time, given the other species I have. The Ram was always front and center, and even when my cat came up and swatted at the tank, he wasn't concerned. He would also nip at my fingers when I was feeding/replanting/etc.
A few days ago I added the Gourami. I drip acclimated him for almost 2 hours, then transferred him to the tank. For the first full day he was skittish and the Ram was constantly chasing and nipping at him. I was worried he might not make it given all of the stress, but decided to give it a day.
Next day, everything was flipped. The Gourami is now always out in the open, while the Ram is almost always hiding, behind the bonsai, on the substrate. When the Gourami gets near him, he (Gourami) turns to the side then usually nips at the Ram a bunch of times. The Ram doesn't seem to be fighting back. The Ram won't come out to eat with the Gourami in the tank.
I've tried time outs, I rearranged the tank with the Ram in and Gourami out, I've fed with the Gourami out, I've tried feeding in separate areas, I rearranged the plants to be concentrated on opposite corners. I'm running out of ideas. When I take the Gourami out, the Ram perks back up within a few minutes. This sounds like a win, except EVERYTHING else in the tank hides when the Gourami is gone. When he's in, the loaches and catfish are soooooo much more active. I REALLY like the Ram, far better than the Gourami, but I also don't want to get rid of the Gourami and have a tank full of hiding, dull colored fish and one centerpiece. Plus, I don't have anyone willing to take the Gourami off my hands, and I'm not ready for another tank yet.
I'm learning as I go here so please excuse any glaring mistakes I may have made. The closest LFS I trust is about an hour from me and I can usually only make it there once a week due to my shift.
Is there anything else I can do to get the Ram to not be afraid without removing the Gourami?
Here's some info about my tank that might help:
- Oceanic Biocube 29
- 3000lm full spectrum LED lights on timer with built in thermometer
- Heater set to 79
- Lightly planted (about a dozen Java ferns, some tufts of Eleocharis parvula, Anubias barteri nana in the bonsai tree, some frogbit and duckweed) working on planting more
- Coarse gravel covered in coarse sand
- Intank Media basket with floss, zeolite, a ceramic biological media I can't remember the name of
- 130 GPH return pump with spray bar
- "50 gallon" sponge filter (needed while some of the less successful plants melt away and diatoms clear up)
- Stocking: 5 Kuhli Loaches, 2 otocinclus catfish, 3 glass catfish, 1 mystery snail, about a dozen ramshorn snails (for now)