Cinnebuns Posted March 25, 2022 Share Posted March 25, 2022 I can relate to one of my female panda cories tonight. Near 90% of the spawning in my tank is done by female 1. All the boys want her! Tonight she was not interested but female 2 was ready for action. I literally watched as 3 males chased female 1 who was not having it, while female 2 chased the 3 males like "hey guys! I'm ready!" So many flash backs to not being the popular girl in high school and not getting the boys lol. Female 2 did spawn tonight but she had to work harder to get that male attention! 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Flumpweesel Posted March 25, 2022 Share Posted March 25, 2022 I have one orange laser female (due to a mix up) and she is very inappropriate with the venezuelan corys when she wants to something she takes it. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cinnebuns Posted March 25, 2022 Author Share Posted March 25, 2022 I think nothing can compare in my experience with being upfront as male guppies. My male guppy has done the thing I've heard a lot where he tries to breed with a fish, not his species, 2x bigger than him. But what was really entertaining is when he tried to breed with the new female I was floating through the bag. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wrencher_Scott Posted March 25, 2022 Share Posted March 25, 2022 (edited) On 3/24/2022 at 11:48 PM, Cinnebuns said: I can relate to one of my female panda cories tonight. Near 90% of the spawning in my tank is done by female 1. All the boys want her! Tonight she was not interested but female 2 was ready for action. I literally watched as 3 males chased female 1 who was not having it, while female 2 chased the 3 males like "hey guys! I'm ready!" So many flash backs to not being the popular girl in high school and not getting the boys lol. Female 2 did spawn tonight but she had to work harder to get that male attention! .deleted Edited March 25, 2022 by Wrencher_Scott Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Odd Duck Posted March 25, 2022 Share Posted March 25, 2022 On 3/25/2022 at 11:44 AM, Wrencher_Scott said: So all the boys wanted you in high school? Good for you. lol You missed the point. Same paragraph she said this: On 3/25/2022 at 1:48 AM, Cinnebuns said: So many flash backs to not being the popular girl in high school and not getting the boys lol. This is the part I identify with. I didn’t like high school between being too shy and being bullied because I was a nerd while trying to be an athlete and I wasn’t a conformist, so it pretty much sucked. I was never “in” with any group and girls, especially, can be cruel. I’m well past the age where that garbage matters to me, but we aren’t cruel here and @Wrencher_Scott your comment could easily be taken the wrong way. So please, do clarify exactly what you mean by this comment? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wrencher_Scott Posted March 25, 2022 Share Posted March 25, 2022 (edited) On 3/25/2022 at 10:17 AM, Odd Duck said: You missed the point. Same paragraph she said this: This is the part I identify with. I didn’t like high school between being too shy and being bullied because I was a nerd while trying to be an athlete and I wasn’t a conformist, so it pretty much sucked. I was never “in” with any group and girls, especially, can be cruel. I’m well past the age where that garbage matters to me, but we aren’t cruel here and @Wrencher_Scott your comment could easily be taken the wrong way. So please, do clarify exactly what you mean by this comment? I meant nothing but a joke. Usually when someone puts "lol" after a comment it means it's a joke (as far as I know) I'll just delete it. I was not "popular" either, so there's that... Edited March 25, 2022 by Wrencher_Scott 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Odd Duck Posted March 25, 2022 Share Posted March 25, 2022 On 3/25/2022 at 2:54 PM, Wrencher_Scott said: I meant nothing but a joke. Usually when someone puts "lol" after a comment it means it's a joke (as far as I know) I'll just delete it. I was not "popular" either, so there's that... It came off wrong and I wasn’t even the target of your comment. The worst bullies I’ve ever seen are high school girls and their worst ridicule is always aimed at other girls. Because of that, many girls are far more likely to be sensitive to bullying and ridicule. I was always the girl that stood up for others which is just part of why I was never “in”. I even had to go to the principle over standing up to a teacher that was a bully and a crusty old codger of a mean girl, but she was only mean to certain girls in any given class. The boys could sleep through class, fail tests, and yet mysteriously still pass. 🤦🏻♀️ Lol doesn’t always work to negate a cutting remark. I appreciate you deleting it. I would ask you to maybe be a little more delicate in the “no true emotion conveyed” world of computer interaction. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cinnebuns Posted March 26, 2022 Author Share Posted March 26, 2022 (edited) I think you are both right tbh. The way I worded it I now see could be taken both ways given the 2nd sentence. No worries. Edited March 26, 2022 by Cinnebuns 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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