Hi all. I purchased 2 Apistos yesterday from an LFS. I asked for a male and female. The employee didn't seemed phased and fished two fish out of the tank for me, no issues. I got them home and the more I look at them, the more concerned I might have gotten 2 males. My understanding is that the males are vibrant and the females are muddied/duller? But looking at them, they seem similar in appearance and I just want a consensus on this. In the picture, the one I believe to be a male is on the left. It's about 20% larger, and the fins "spike" where in the other Apisto, they do not (see right fish in picture). Otherwise, they seem almost identical (at least close enough) for me to be concerned. Can anybody confirm from these pictures if I have a male and a female, or two males? Also, assuming I have a m/f pair, would adding another 1-2 females cause any concerns? This is a 40 gallon breeder community tank with room for at least another dozen smaller fish. Thanks!